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Kings 2:10-12, 3:3-14
Letting
Go and Falling into God
James
Sledge August
19, 2012
Several
decades ago, Mac Davis had something of a hit song entitled “It’s Hard to Be
Humble.” The opening verse, which also
serves at the chorus, goes, “Oh Lord, it’s hard to be humble when you’re
perfect in every way. I can’t wait to
look in the mirror ‘cause I get better looking each day. To know me is to love me. I must be a hell of
a man. Oh Lord, it’s hard to be humble,
but I’m doing the best that I can.”
You
can find countless T-shirts, coffee cups, and bumper stickers that play on this
hard to be humble theme. It’s hard to be
humble when you’re Scottish, Irish, Scandinavian, or from Texas. It’s hard to be humble when you go to (insert
your school name here). It’s hard to be
humble when you own a Border collie, ride a Harley, or – I actually found this
one – crochet.
Whatever
the reason, seems it’s hard to be humble.
We may not like it if you go too far and act like Donald Trump, but our
culture associates humility with weakness and timidity. We’re more likely to pad our résumés than to
leave stuff out. Employment experts will
tell you that you need to “sell yourself” when you apply for a job, and sell of
course means to make yourself look as good as possible. The pressure in our society to be impressive
is tremendous, and we regularly see people get caught because they felt they
needed to lie on their résumé.
Humility
is no easier to come by among church professionals. Pastors compare how big their congregations
are, and rare is the pastor who feels God’s call to a smaller
congregation. I suspect a lot of us
would have a hard time encouraging our congregations to do something we were
certain God wanted if it would cause attendance or giving to go down.
To
make matters worse in the pastoral humility department, we pastors are
sometimes prone to confuse our own agendas with God’s. When we have ideas that
we think are great, we expect everyone else to think they are great, too. Most of the things I’d like to take back or
undo as a pastor happened when I was overly impressed with my own ideas and got
adamant or defensive when Session, some committee, or some other group didn’t
want to go along.
Of
course, while it may be hard to be humble, Christian faith is quite big on
humility, as are most of the world’s religions.
The Old Testament wisdom from Proverbs says, When pride comes, then comes
disgrace; but wisdom is with the humble. Jesus describes himself as humble and he says
on more than one occasion, “All those who exalt themselves will be
humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” And the letter of James quotes the Old
Testament in reminding readers, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to
the humble.”
King
Solomon seems to have gotten the memo on humility. When he encounters God in our reading today
he says, “O Yahweh my God, you have made your servant king in place of my father
David, although I am only a little child; I do not know how to go out or come
in.” Little child here does not
refer to Solomon’s age but to his status before God. The same is true with regards to saying he is
God’s servant, or, more literally, God’s slave.