Matthew 3:13-17
Remembering Who We Are
James Sledge January
12, 2020 – Baptism of the Lord
It’s
an old joke, one I’m sure I’ve told before, so if you’ve heard it, please bear
with me. A group of pastors are meeting for lunch. As I assume happens with
other professions, such lunches often include a fair amount of talking shop.
There is some complaining and venting, some idea sharing. “What are y’all doing
for Lent this year?” and other such discussions.
At
this particular lunch, one of the pastors shared that they were having a
problem with bats at the church she served. They had discovered a huge colony
in the steeple and needed to get them out. She wondered if any of the other
pastors had experience with this sort of thing. She didn’t want to hurt the
bats but they were starting to make a pretty big mess.
One
colleague shared the name of a local pest removal company. Another suggested an
ultrasonic pest repeller, but the pastor said they’d already tried one of those
with no success.
Finally
another pastor said, “We had the same problem a few years ago and decided to
enroll them all in confirmation class. When it was over, we never saw them
again.”
For
those of you from other religious traditions, confirmation is step two in a
two-step process for becoming a full-fledged member of a Presbyterian church.
Step one is baptism, something that typically happens when a child is still an
infant. Confirmation, which includes making a public profession of faith, is
the confirming of those baptismal vows, claiming the faith of one’s parents or
guardians as one’s own.
Unfortunately,
confirmation has a long history of becoming a graduation from church. Children
are baptized, attend Sunday School as children, do confirmation as teens, and
pretty much disappear after that. For much of the 20th century, they
often returned to church when they married and had children of their own, but
that pattern has largely broken down. By the latter part of the 20th
century, many of those who graduated never came back.
I
sometimes wonder if we in the church didn’t set ourselves up for this. In a
variety of ways, we portrayed Christian faith as a status that one attains.
Some evangelicals talk about being born again or saved. But what comes after
that? We Presbyterians have rarely used the language of “born again” or being
“saved,” but we still tended to treat Christianity as a status. In many
congregations, Sunday School is seen as something for children. Presumably that
means you are done at some point. You’ve finished, graduated, gotten your Christianity
pin.
Some
parents skip a step and just make infant baptism the graduation. They “get the
baby done,” often at the urging of grandparents. And then they never go near church
again.