Luke 1:26-38
Joining Mary in Her
“Yes”
James Sledge December
20, 2020
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Annunciation to Mary, stained glass, Cathédrale de Chartres
from Art in the Christian
Tradition, a project of the Vanderbilt Divinity Library
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There’s a banking commercial where
a spokesperson walks through the bank, holding up his phone and says, “With a
top rated app that lets you deposit checks and transfer money anytime,
anywhere, banking with (our bank) is like the easiest decision in the history
of decisions. Kind of like…” and the scene then shifts to an outdoor basketball
court.
Two children are choosing players
for their teams. Opposite them are four possible teammates to choose from:
three children about their size, along with college and NBA great, Charles
Barkley. The little girl who chooses first takes, not surprisingly, Sir
Charles, who proceeds to celebrate saying “Yes! I still got it.” And looking
down at the boy next him continues, “I told you she’d pick me first!” as the
boy looks disgusted.
When I was a kid, we called this
“choosing up sides.” It was a familiar ritual in the PE classes and playground
gatherings of my youth. Basketball, softball, football, and more; two captains
took turns picking teammates. It was great to be picked first, awful to be
last.
Even if choosing up sides wasn’t
part of your childhood experience, we’ve all dealt with versions of it. High
school students take SATs and ACTs, send out applications to colleges and
universities, then wait to see if they get chosen. Those graduating from
college interview with employers and hope they get chosen. A supervisor
position opens up at the plant and some of the workers apply and wait to see if
they get chosen.
These adult choosing rituals may
be a little more sophisticated than their playground cousin. For the most part
they don’t include the public humiliation of being chosen last, but they still
function in much the same way, trying to pick the best person available.
This process is deeply ingrained
into American culture. Traditionally, we are strong believers in meritocracy,
in people being able to become and do all they are able to. We have little use
for the rigid class systems of some other societies, where no matter how hard
someone works, she can never advance beyond the status into which she was born.
Our system often serves us well,
but it also shapes our understanding of what it means to be chosen. Whether
it’s being able to shoot a basketball, close more big deals, design better
software, and on and on, in our minds, being chosen means being judged superior
or preferable to some other possible choice.
And so we come to our gospel
reading where the angel Gabriel shows up to say God has chosen Mary. “Greetings,
favored one!” Now we Protestants
have never been quite sure what to do with Mary. A distaste for Roman Catholic practices
of venerating, even praying to Mary has often led to dismissing her as much as
possible. “She had a baby, and she was a
mom, nothing more,” said the men who ran the church.