Ephesians 4:25-5:2
Who Are You?
James Sledge James
Sledge
Early
baptism depicted in ancient fresco
My father was an electrical engineer who
worked for the local power company until retirement. But he was also a man of
deep faith who at one point in his life contemplated becoming a pastor. After I
became a pastor, we would often engage in deep, theological discussions,
perhaps some of the most significant such discussions I’ve ever had other than
at seminary or with colleagues.
During one of our discussions, he told me about a woman he had dated as a young man who had no use for religion or the church. My father, who was very active as a youth in his church and had a very close relationship with his pastor, tried to communicate something of what he had experienced at church to this woman. She responded with a biting question that perhaps characterized her understanding of church. “Do they do anything besides tell you to be good little boys and girls?”
I’m met my share of people who would seem to share this woman’s view of church, although many saw it in more positive terms. I’ve known parents who brought their children to church even though they didn’t participate themselves because they thought a little moral formation would be good for them. They didn’t take their children to worship, but they viewed Sunday School as a moral companion to regular school, a place where children learned to be good little boys and girls.
I suspect there are a lot of adults, many of them church members, who view Christian faith primarily as a moral enterprise accompanied by divine carrot and stick incentives. Behave yourself and get a heavenly reward. Don’t and reap the consequences.
A cursory reading of our scripture for this morning might at first seem to support such a view. Tell the truth. Don’t steal. Take care with your anger. Be kind. Forgive people. In other words, be good little boys and girls. But the writer of Ephesians is not engaging in moralizing. Rather, he is describing what it looks like to shed an old identity and put on a new one.