John 13:31-35
Transformed by Love
James Sledge April
24, 2016
“I give you a new commandment, that you love one
another.” But
exactly how new is this commandment? Love your neighbor as yourself is in
the Old Testament book of Leviticus. And haven’t parents been trying to get
siblings to love one another since the beginning of time? Isn’t a mom yelling,
“Why can’t you two just get along?” an exasperated version of “Love one another!”?
At
first glance, this command to love one another also seems a lot less noble, a
lot less impressive than some of Jesus’ other commands such as, “Love
your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” Now that’s an
extraordinary accomplishment, surely something much more difficult than loving
those around you, than loving one another.
Then
again, “one another” presumably refers to those we spend a lot of time with,
those who have ample opportunities to annoy us, hurt us, disagree with us, get
under out skin, and disappoint us. And if our enemy is nameless and faceless,
some group way over there, they may not stir our emotions nearly so much as
that family member we can’t abide, or that member of the congregation who seems
to go out of his or her way to be difficult and cause trouble
There’s
an old Peanuts cartoon that I think captures this well. (I’ve updated the
language a bit.) Lucy has told Linus that he can’t be a doctor because he
doesn’t love humankind. Linus yells back, “I love humankind… It’s people I
can’t stand!!”
Humanity…
nameless, faceless others in general, even some who are enemies, perhaps we can
love them on principle. But those people that we encounter on a regular basis,
who irritate and annoy and cause us all manner of problems… that’s another
matter entirely. “Love one another,” may not sound all that noble or
impressive, but doing it isn’t very easy.
That
doesn’t really make it a new commandment though. What is new about love
one another?